Dear kids, dear spectators, dear ex-wife…

So I am standing here on the other side of the huge, important and amazing marriage.

What went wrong – well this is the very short story – and all based on how I am / feel / do right now (lots more happened obviously, but then this post would never end, would it?)

Well, for a start, not much went wrong during the 11 years with my beautiful wife. – If you compare with what actually COULD go wrong. Wow, thinking back – what a journey, what a life and what diverse experiences I have accomplished – not alone, but together with a lovely girl; Mette. Whom I am very thankful I have spent extraordinary years with – those years are unforgettable!

First it was all rock’n'roll – well basically I was a pro rock musician, so it actually WAS rock’n'roll – It was crazy – and then suddenly the news popped in: Stefan, I am pregnant. WOW, with all accepted and getting ready for a new era in life, with children – a new chapter starts: Oliver. I guess everybody would agree with me that I can call him a clone; and he came to life. What beauty, what sudden responsibility and what incredible change of priorities do appear.

Then a fantastic wedding appeared – the best party in my life – and sooner to come a bankruptcy and a following success, my media agency – while no. 2 popped – my princess Zofia came along. Now, a girl is definitely ever-changing the life once again. What I soon realized and blew my mind with was; What is life all about? and with no question, kids always come in front beyond ANYTHING. And here is what probably startled and changed my life in this perspective and priority: First kids, then work – and then along the way – oh the wife, oh right – who also worked hard getting to fix the kids and house and stuff.

Having two – why not have three?

It’s pretty fundamental all this for me – in my heart – I always dreamed of having many children, and third one was plain logic to achieve for both of us; the fantastic Caya – another clone of me… appeared. And what a STAR!!!

In the meantime I was struck with the opportunity to create a huge project with my best friend. Finally we said, YES – WE GO FOR IT – and got the acknowledgement from wives and thought everything was good.

For the company, we worked – and at this point – still work 24/7 with this great venture and it is an amazing journey and adventure with everything herein accounted for.

Now, working 24/7 set aside everything else – but the venture and my children basically – EVERYTHING else was sacked. Friends, family, social life – and – well you guessed right: wife… While I am out exploring life, new civilizations (yes, cpt picard!) – I had a strong woman taking care of our kids and the house. And all this in a matter turned out to align each of our REAL dreams. For me to understand, it basically turned into be a game of where one party would be happy and the other one would be unhappy. Very sad but – in retrospective – the right path for both of us. We have both realized what we both wanted in life (and they are different these goals), and that for me (although small stumbles obviously have appeared) can only be considered as the optimal separation. We both have our goals, but top goal is always our kids, so whatever happens, we are both 100% sure of what is important to us : OUR KIDS! anything else is irrelevant and I am so happy to have met this girl, Mette, the mother of my three children – set aside that we unfortunately lost our love and passion towards each other – we still can be friends and grow our children both apart and yet together. That is in my eyes, TRULY amazing!

(hopefully I will make many posts about these 11 years and my lovely children and life – but that is not the goal for this post, however)

My new life!

I ALWAYS dreamed of going out exploring the world. Actually this has been my long everlasting goal – NOT to live in Denmark, but everywhere else in the world. For a start my family is Polish, from Krakow, and with my parents moving to Denmark (before I was even born) – and a Dad who moved onwards to London, I have always understood that it is achievable and interesting for that matter to go beyond where you are. My big sister moved as well to London by the age of 17-18 – and I have always wanted to want to explore the world. However, this was not meant to happen before my age of 33.

He, I am a bit crazy – but it HAD to take me 3 kids and 33 years to start living out my own dream – 100%. What I have really urged for. A new place, a new start: London (the closest to my lovely children) In this case I have a lot of luggage, and I am so thankful for this package. I am only 34 now and have achieved for me the utmost goal: kids > parents (3 > 2) and a career most people would have dreamed of achieving. So many experiences, but in the end trying to answer my statement: my new life.

My new life, hmmmm. interesting thought – I have no fucking clue to be honest. What I know is: I am here, I am now finally a Londoner, have the energy to write this post. AND ready to live my new life. It has begun…

Indulge me, Provoke me, Inspire me… Actually… No, forget it, I’ll do that ALL on my own

ITS TIME TO ROCK’N'ROLL! Once again!